{"id":3698,"date":"2021-05-10T09:18:34","date_gmt":"2021-05-10T08:18:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=3698"},"modified":"2021-05-11T15:53:26","modified_gmt":"2021-05-11T14:53:26","slug":"international-boys-day-16-may-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=3698","title":{"rendered":"International Boys\u2019 Day, 16 May 2021"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/boys-day-sticky-retina.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"148\" height=\"148\" src=\"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/boys-day-sticky-retina.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3273\"\/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>International what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To \u2018fess up, last year (2020) was the first time I\u2019d heard of International Boys\u2019 Day, for which I wrote <a href=\"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=3271\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">this piece<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A bit of history. <a href=\"http:\/\/internationalboysday.org\/about-us\/history\/#:~:text=It%20is%20within%20this%20context%20that%20the%20first,Day%E2%80%9D%20will%20be%20observed%20on%2016%20May%202018.%E2%80%9D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The campaign<\/a> for recognition of a designated International Day of the Boy Child was initiated by Dr Jerome Teelucksingh, a history professor from Trinidad and Tabago, in 2018.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Teelucksingh was also instrumental, in 1999, in reviving interest in International Men\u2019s Day following its earlier beginnings in 1991\/2 in the <a href=\"https:\/\/avoiceformen.com\/a-voice-for-men\/resistance-to-international-mens-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">USA by Thomas Oastler<\/a>. It was Teelucksingh who designated 19<sup>th<\/sup> November as International Men\u2019s Day after his father\u2019s birthday, so this date for IMD has been in place since 1999. The same day, 19<sup>th<\/sup> November, was named international toilet day by the World Toilet Organisation in 2001, and later recognised on that same date by the UN in 2013.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.internationalwomensday.com\/Activity\/15586\/The-history-of-IWD\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">history of international \u201cwomen\u2019s days\u201d<\/a>, in various incarnations, goes back over a century and was very early associated with 8<sup>th<\/sup> March. It was officially recognised by the UN in 1977. The UN also recognises officially an International Day of the Girl Child, on 11<sup>th<\/sup> October, this being inaugurated in 2012.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The UN does not recognise International Men\u2019s Day. Nor does the UN recognise the International Day of the Boy Child, 16<sup>th<\/sup> May. This is called \u2018equality\u2019 as we must now understand that term.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From the feminist perspective this is justified because males are (apparently irrespective of age) powerful and privileged. Here\u2019s a quick demonstration of how lucky boys are. I don\u2019t pretend it\u2019s science.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a boy, a girl, a cat and a dog were abandoned in a park who would be rescued first?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Easy, I thought. In the UK it would go (i) dog, (ii) girl, (iii) cat, (iv) boy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was close. In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/article-3749187\/If-boy-girl-cat-dog-left-park-rescued-Social-experiment-shows-subject-people-responded-fastest-completely-ignored.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">one social experiment in a New York City park<\/a> it went like this,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" type=\"1\"><li>Girl \u2013 rescue after 3 minutes<\/li><li>Dog \u2013 rescue after 4 minutes<\/li><li>Cat \u2013 rescue after 10 minutes<\/li><li>Boy \u2013 cameras stopped rolling after 45 minutes when the crew gave up.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>The girl and boy were both six years old and both white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Male disposability, eh? It\u2019s just MRA conspiracy theory bullshit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whilst you can find <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/internationalboysday.org\/things-to-do\/\" target=\"_blank\">ideas of what you might do<\/a> to celebrate International Boys\u2019 Day with the boy(s) in your life, I could find nothing organised in the UK. As far as I could see from their web site, the UK-based <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.menandboyscoalition.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\">Men and Boys Coalition<\/a> is not doing anything explicitly to recognise International Boys\u2019 Day this year either.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>International what? To \u2018fess up, last year (2020) was the first time I\u2019d heard of International Boys\u2019 Day, for which I wrote this piece. A bit of history. 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