{"id":2756,"date":"2019-02-01T09:02:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-01T09:02:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=2756"},"modified":"2026-04-21T20:19:44","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T19:19:44","slug":"women-trump-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=2756","title":{"rendered":"Women Trump Children?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Contents<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_Toc536728147\">1. Introduction \/ Evolution<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_Toc536728148\">2. Background: Women Before Children<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_Toc536728149\">3. Abortion Without Time Limit<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a>1. Introduction \/ Evolution<\/a><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s no longer about men\u2019s rights; it\u2019s about children\u2019s\nrights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It has been apparent for some time that the feminists\nset women ahead of children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought I couldn\u2019t get any more implacably opposed to\nfeminism. It seems I was wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me remind you of the evolutionary origin of our\ndifficulties. The preferencing of women (call it chivalry, call it gynocentrism,\ncall it the empathy gap, call it what you will) has its origin in the pair bond,\na key Homo sapiens adaptation, central to the overwhelming success of the\nspecies (amongst other attributes). But in this regard, women \u2013 as mothers \u2013\nare actually a proxy for children. Evolution cares only for reproductive\nsuccess, which is manifest in children and their survival to reproductive age.\nWhen women\u2019s primary concern was the domestic, they functioned as a suitable proxy\nfor children. What was beneficial for the mother could be assumed to also be\nbeneficial for the child. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But in respect of women in a non-domestic role, such as in the workplace, their preferencing is an anomaly: such preferencing is not conducive to evolutionary success. Indeed, in as far as it diminishes the birth rate (as it has), it is counter-evolutionary. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when it comes to killing babies, there can be no\nclearer departure from an evolutionary optimum: no clearer indication that\nfeminism has subverted and invalidated the proxy status of women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a>2. Background: Women Before Children<\/a><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Where I\u2019m heading with this post is abortion, and, in particular, the moves to permit abortion without time limit. But first, a brief reminder of how feminism has been putting women\u2019s rights ahead of children\u2019s rights for decades. This has long been apparent in the context of the safeguarding of children. This arises in the context of custody\/contact after parental separation. For example, <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/karenwoodall.blog\/2019\/01\/27\/digging-up-the-feminist-past-to-develop-a-family-focused-future\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Karen Woodall writes<\/a>,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c<em>For four decades since the change in divorce laws, the needs of women\nin the family have usurped the needs of children<\/em>\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The same focus on mothers to the exclusion of their children also occurs when social services are actively involved in a dysfunctional family. Here is <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/karenwoodall.blog\/2013\/10\/04\/gender-biased-family-services-killing-children-in-the-uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Karen again, writing in 2013<\/a>,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThe\nreports of Filicide, the murder by a mother of her child, are all over the news\nthis week. Baby P,&nbsp;Daniel Pelka,&nbsp;Hamzah Khan,&nbsp;Keanu Williams\nbeing just four names that are engraved upon our consciousness, not just\nbecause of their untimely deaths, but because of the nature of the suffering\ninflicted upon them before they died.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Collective\nhandwringing is in evidence up and down the land and who is to blame is being\nwidely discussed. &nbsp;The sight of the Head of Birmingham Children\u2019s\nSafeguarding Board attempting to squirm out of the reality of her\nresponsibility for allowing yet another death of a child to happen on her\nwatch, was excruciating on the BBC news last night. &nbsp;Her words, in a\nstatement released this week scream out the reality of why children are dying,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u2018I wish, on behalf of all the statutory agencies who sit on the Board to express very deep regret and distress about Keanu\u2019s death. We apologise unequivocally for what were totally unacceptable and unnecessary failures both collectively and individually in every organisation which had contact with Keanu. We fully accept all the findings of the Serious Case Review and the recommendations made. Keanu died because there was failure across every agency to see, hear and respond to him in the context of what he was experiencing at any one point in time. Staff were distracted by his mother\u2019s needs and by taking what she was telling them at face value.\u2019 <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Karen again, &#8220;<em>Staff were distracted by his mother\u2019s needs and by taking what she was telling them at face value! \u00a0In other words, a systemic use of gender biased practice which focuses practitioners not on the needs of children, but on the rights and needs of women. \u00a0If ever there was proof needed that social work and our children and family services are, as a very senior social worker said recently, a \u2018feminist industry\u2019, this is it. \u00a0Gender biased family services, upholding the rights and needs of women above those of children, are killing those children in a neighbourhood near you and until we name it, we are never going to stop it.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The four cases named above are not isolated. Ignoring the danger to children posed by mothers is an endemic problem. This was further exposed in the November 2017 report \u201c<a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cafcass.gov.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/cafcass_learning_from_scr_submissions_-_2017_-_external_version.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learning from Cafcass submissions to Serious Case Reviews<\/a>\u201d, by Richard Green and Emily Halliday. This report derives lessons to be learnt from the 97 Serious Case Reviews (SCRs) to which CAFCASS contributed between 2009 and 2016. These SCRs involved known or suspected abuse or neglect of a child where the child died or was seriously harmed. The key findings were,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mothers and fathers were suspected perpetrators of a similar number of incidents of child homicide;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Allegations of domestic abuse had been made in 71% of cases, and almost all allegations of domestic abuse were against men, or included men, usually fathers;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Of those cases where domestic abuse allegations had been made, only in about half of the cases was the person thought to have killed or harmed the child the alleged domestic abuse perpetrator;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In some cases, the authorities\u2019 concentration on the alleged risk posed by the father or male partner may have masked a greater risk posed by the mother. Quote, \u2018<em>In some cases where index incidents were perpetrated by the mother, SCRs found that the mother\u2019s history had not been sufficiently analysed, concerns about her being overshadowed by concerns about the father or other male. It is interesting to note that such SCRs do not show a simple relationship between male domestic abuse and the fatal\/serious maltreatment of children<\/em>.\u2019<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>One might have hoped that after a sequence of very\nhigh profile cases, and the acknowledgement of an issue by CAFCASS, and\nrepeated assurances that \u201clessons would be learnt\u201d that lessons would indeed be\nlearnt. But no. To think that lessons would be learnt is to underestimate the\ndepth of resistance that exists within the social services and other authorities\nto the notion that mothers, too, can pose a risk to their children \u2013 not just men.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Karen Woodall has identified, the root cause of the problem in acknowledging the potential risk to children from women is that the mother\u2019s wellbeing is actually being placed ahead of that of the children. To demonstrate that lessons have not been learnt, consider the London Safeguarding Children Board (and I expect much the same will hold for other Safeguarding Children Boards). Their advice on \u201c<a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"http:\/\/www.londoncp.co.uk\/chapters\/sg_ch_dom_abuse.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Safeguarding children affected by domestic abuse<\/a>\u201d runs to 58 pages and over 18,000 words. In all those 58 pages there is not even a hint that mothers might pose a risk to their children. The advice is entirely based on the assumption that the danger, to both mother and children, is from the father or male partner. For example, the primary purpose of the advice is,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>To support the mother to assist her to protect herself and the children; and,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>To hold the abusive partner accountable for the violence and provide him with opportunities to change.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Symptoms of abuse uniformly assume a male\nperpetrator and include, for example,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u2026controlling who the mother or children see or where they go, what they wear or do, stalking, imprisonment, forced marriage;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u2026the severity of the violence against the mother is predictive of the severity of abuse to the children;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The child being abused as part of the abuse against the mother:<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The children are often reliant on their mother as the only source of good parenting, as the abusive partner will have significantly diminished ability to parent well.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>One needs to imagine this sort of stuff continuing over 58 pages. Where there is an oblique nod to a potential for mother\u2019s culpability, the blame is redirected at the nearest man, the mother having no recognised capacity for reprehensible agency, for example,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Being forced to participate in the abuse and degradation by the abusive partner.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Since drugs and alcohol play a\nmajor role in domestic abuse, any culpability of a mother who so indulges is also\nexplicitly deflected to the nearest man,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Mothers may have started using legal drugs prescribed to alleviate symptoms of a violent relationship. Mothers may turn to alcohol and drugs as a form of self-medication and relief from the pain, fear, isolation and guilt that are associated with domestic abuse. Alcohol and drug use can help eliminate or reduce these feelings and therefore become part of how she copes with the abuse.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mothers can be coerced and manipulated into alcohol and drug use. Abusers may often introduce their partner to alcohol or drug use to increase her dependence on him and to control her behaviour.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cmay\u201d, hmmm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The mindset is that women are never guilty of child abuse. And yet the reality is that mothers are at least as likely to perpetrate child abuse as men, including being responsible for child deaths. My own <a aria-label=\"332 Child Homicides (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"http:\/\/empathygap.uk\/?p=1503\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">332 Child Homicides<\/a> concluded that, where culpability was established, the mother was the lone perpetrator in 36% of cases and either a lone or a co-perpetrator in over half of cases (58%). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But there is a steadfast refusal \u2013 as evidenced by the Child Safeguarding Boards &#8211; to acknowledge that women are not all angels, and, in fact, are no better than men. The price for this conceit is paid by children, whom the so-called Safeguarding Boards prefer not to protect if it means knocking women off their pedestal. But off their pedestal they must go, or this perversion of morality will only worsen. It already is doing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And this brings me to the latest horror in\nthe abortion saga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a>3. Abortion Without Time Limit<\/a><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Unlike many within the MRM, I\u2019ve never been\nagainst abortion &#8211; before. I could not go along with the Catholics, or other\nChristians, who maintain that even a zygote is a sacred life. I was of the view\nthat abortion, within some time limit, is the lesser evil compared to bringing\nan unwanted child into the world. To me, the issue was viability. If the embryo\nis not viable outside the uterus, then abortion could be tolerated. The current\n24 week limit (in Great Britain) could, admittedly, do with review, since a 24\nweek old foetus can be viable with modern medical technology. So it should only\nbe revised down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But in January 2019, New York state passed a law <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/news\/new-york-passes-abortion-bill-late-term-if-mothers-health-is-at-risk-today-2019-01-23\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">allowing abortions without a time limit<\/a>. After 24 weeks this requires approval of a doctor, but this is merely a fig leaf. This breaks new ground, though it is an objective which feminists <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2014\/may\/06\/reason-restrict-womens-options-abortion\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">have been pursuing for a long time<\/a>, including within the UK. In May 2016, the <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/2016\/05\/20\/abortion-is-part-of-our-calling-says-royal-college-of-midwives-c\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Royal College of Midwives<\/a> announced their decision to support a campaign to scrap the time limit on abortion and sweep away all current legal restrictions. Thankfully, there was a storm of protest, both from rank-and-file midwives and also MPs. It appeared that the Royal College\u2019s chief executive, Cathy Warwick, had \u201cridden roughshod\u201d over majority opinion. The new law proved more popular in New York, where the passing of the Act was greeted with an \u201c<a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.faithwire.com\/2019\/01\/23\/new-york-senate-erupts-in-applause-after-passing-horrific-late-term-abortion-bill\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">eruption of applause<\/a>\u201d in the senate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The rot in the USA is not confined to New York. A Bill in Virginia, proposed by Fairfax County\u2019s <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/heavy.com\/news\/2019\/01\/kathy-tran\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kathy Tran<\/a>, is also set to permit abortion up to birth. She has confirmed that her Bill would permit \u201cabortion\u201d even after the women in question has already gone into labour. The so-called \u201cmoderate\u201d Democratic Virginia Governor, Ralph Northam, deepened controversy by stating that the baby in question might be born , alive, but then killed subject to the mother\u2019s wish and agreement by two doctors. To be accurate, in the <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/hotair.com\/archives\/2019\/01\/30\/moderate-dem-virginia-governor-new-late-term-abortion-bill-allow-babies-killed-theyre-born\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">video recording of this statement<\/a>, Northam alluded to the foetus being severely deformed and perhaps non-viable. He also suggested the baby, once born, might be resuscitated if necessary, before being dispatched if the mother so wished. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, Kathy Tran\u2019s Bill would not make abortion,\neven at the point of delivery, conditional upon non-viability, or even any\nproblem at all with the baby. Instead either severe foetal abnormality <strong><em>or<\/em><\/strong>\na claimed adverse impact on the mother\u2019s health would suffice to justify the\nkilling. And what would constitute a challenge to the mother\u2019s health? Answer,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c<em>all factors &#8211; physical, emotional, psychological, familial, and the\nwoman\u2019s age &#8211; relevant to the wellbeing of the patient<\/em>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(In the event these changes did not occur and currently Virginia permits abortion up to 28 weeks).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We need look no further than our own law of abortion\nin Great Britain to expose the paper thin fraudulence of this faux-protection. This\nis actually abortion on demand, without time limit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is the existing law in Great Britain according to\nthe Abortion Act 1967. Abortion is legal in Britain up to 24 weeks if either of\nthe following holds: (a) continuance of the pregnancy risks injury to the\nphysical or mental health of the pregnant woman or any existing children of her\nfamily; or, (b) there is a substantial risk that if the child were born it\nwould suffer from such physical or mental abnormalities as to be seriously\nhandicapped. After 24 weeks abortion is legal only if there is a substantial\nrisk to the woman\u2019s life or there are serious risks of foetal abnormalities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2017 there were 197,533 abortions in England &amp; Wales. Only <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/assets.publishing.service.gov.uk\/government\/uploads\/system\/uploads\/attachment_data\/file\/763174\/2017-abortion-statistics-for-england-and-wales-revised.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2% of these were due to foetal abnormalities<\/a>. 98% of abortions (around 193,600 per year) are carried out ostensibly due to the risk to the physical or mental health of the women. Really? How credible is this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In 2017 there were 679,100 live births in England &amp;\nWales. Had the 193,600 aborted babies been permitted to be born, we are being asked\nto believe that 22% of these births would have resulted in harm to the mother\nserious enough to motivate the abortion. In fact, the actual implied percentage\nwould be far bigger because this would imply that quite a sizeable proportion\nof the 679,100 babies actually born would cause their mothers\u2019 harm too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For comparison, just 0.008% of mothers die in\nchildbirth in the UK. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And just 0.6% of babies are stillborn or subject to natural foetal death in utero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In truth it is clear that ideological sympathy for \u201ca woman\u2019s right to choose\u201d leads practitioners to interpret frustrating the mother\u2019s wish for an abortion as a challenge to her mental health. The issue of harm to the mother is a ruse, a subterfuge. The existing British law is, de facto, abortion on demand before 24 weeks. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The NHS makes abortion on demand unambiguous. In their guidance on the conditions applying to abortion,  the NHS makes no mention whatsoever that there are supposed to be medical grounds to justify it. Instead <a aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/abortion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the NHS states bluntly<\/a>,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c<em>Some women may be certain they want to have an abortion, while others\nmay find it more difficult to make a decision\u2026.The decision to have an abortion\nis yours alone.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You\nmay also want to speak to your partner, friends or family, but you don&#8217;t need\nto discuss it with anyone else and they don&#8217;t have a say in the final decision<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, we should not be fooled by the new law in New\nYork, or that being proposed in Virginia, as regards the medical proviso. That\nis a mere sop. What these laws will be, in reality, is abortion on demand\nwithout time limit, even up to and including the point of labour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is murder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is no longer a matter of opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no functional difference between a baby which is just days, or a few weeks, from full term and a new born baby. The only difference is their location in space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feminist moral corruption and self-aggrandisement has\nnow reached the point at which they present women as deities who may decide\nlife and death over others. They need to be stopped. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Contents 1. Introduction \/ Evolution 2. Background: Women Before Children 3. Abortion Without Time Limit 1. Introduction \/ Evolution It\u2019s no longer about men\u2019s rights; it\u2019s about children\u2019s rights. It has been apparent for some time that the feminists set women ahead of children. I thought I couldn\u2019t get any more implacably opposed to feminism. 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